Infant & Mom



 

 

 

Benefits of Breastfeeding

Getting Started

Fathers and Breast Feeding

Adequate Milk Supply

Challenges and Concerns Engorgement
Plugged Duct
Mastitis

Drugs and Breastfeeding

Storage of Breast Milk

Nutrition During Lactation

 

 

 

Fathers and Breastfeeding:


WHAT THE FATHER CAN DO TO HELP

Feelings of jealousy and of being left out are a normal reaction in some fathers to the intimate relationship between a nursing mother and her baby. The best way to avoid these kinds of feelings is to be an active participant in your new baby's life and the way he or she is fed.

Here are just some of the ways a new father can be involved in the care and feeding of his breastfed infant:

YOU AS A NEW FATHER CAN...

  • Bring the baby to the mother when it's time to nurse.
  • Change the baby's diaper before or after nursings Hold the baby while mother gets herself into a comfortable nursing position.
  • Help to rouse the baby if she's too sleepy to nurse.
  • Get your partner something to drink while she is nursing. (nursing mothers are always thirsty and need extra fluids)
  • Take over the child care between nursings so the mother can get some rest or time to herself.
  • Do grocery shopping and keep nutritious snacks on hand.
  • Share in the household chores.
  • Reassure your partner that she is doing a good job and that you think what she is doing is important.

IF PROBLEMS ARISE...

Difficulties which arise in the early weeks of breastfeeding can seem overwhelming to the mother who is exhausted from lack of sleep or experiencing pain. Some women question their ability to continue nursing during this time. It is at this point that the support and encouragement of the father can contribute greatly to the success of breastfeeding. Here are some common concerns and problems you can help to offset:


Doubts about having enough milk

This is a real concern for many women. REASSURE your partner that the baby is getting plenty of milk if:
  • the baby nurses 8-12 times in 24 hours
  • the baby has at least 6 wet and 2 dirty diapers in 24 hours
  • the baby gains 4-7 ounces per week - the baby is content between feedings


Breastfeeding works by supply and demand. The more often the infant is put to the breast, the more milk the mother will have

Sore nipples

This problem is most often caused by poor positioning of the baby to the breast. With your partner, check that your baby is latching onto the areola (brown part) of the breast and not just sucking on the nipple itself. Remind mom to alternate nursing positions and to air-dry her nipples for 10-20 minutes after each feeding.